Book Review: The Selfless Gene: Living with God and Darwin by Charles Foster

What it is: The premise of this book is a rebuttal against arguments presented by Richard Dawkins in his book, the Selfish Gene. Where Dawkins and the neo-Darwinists claim that natural selection is the only way change has come about in the natural world, and that everywhere a scientist looks, all that can be seen is selfishness; a battle for the prize of genetic survival. Not so, says Foster. The historical natural world can be viewed through another lens, and there can be found a continual progression from the simple to the brilliantly complex through co-operation, community, and genuine altruism, as well as natural selection and evolutionary processes.
My thoughts: This book provides a much needed rational discourse that outlines (and dismantles) the arguments of two extreme positions: the neo-Darwinists and the Young Earth Creationists. As a somewhat educated but generally non-scientific person who has thought both ends of the spectrum of thought concerning the origins of the world were, well, distorted to say the least, but not feeling knowledgeable enough to join the conversation, this book enhanced my understanding greatly. I did find it to be, at times, excessive in the insults hurled in both directions, and while some of the ideas are original and hopeful, scripture and science are both stretched, perhaps a little further than they could be. Overall I thought it was an enjoyable and worthwhile read.
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The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time

A few days ago I finished reading The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time by Mark Haddon.

This book has one of the most original and memorable protagonists I have ever read. And I feel like that’s all I can tell you.

One of the best things about this book was that I knew nothing about it going in and having the story unfold with it’s surprises and delicacies was a treat.

I like the original style. I can see the careful editing. I love the pacing. The things I love the most I can’t tell you. You have to read it for yourself. If you’re looking for a memorable novel, read this.

Unveiled by Francine Rivers

On Sunday I read this fictionalized account of the life of Tamar. I’d read the story of Tamar and Judah in the Bible before and been puzzled by it. It is found in Genesis 38:1-11.

People in the Bible often found themselves in very dire and also bizarre circumstances. And sometimes their actions and responses to those circumstances are even more confusing. But God uses them in unimaginable ways.

In the fictionalized version, her mother tells her, “Life is hard for a woman, Tamar. But it is impossible without a man.” And Tamar finds herself abandoned by men. Her father gives her (or sells her for a bride-price, depending on how you look at it) to Judah as a bride for his oldest son, Er. Er is a wicked man and God strikes him down. Tamar is then given to his younger brother to sleep with because she had not yet conceived a child. The tradition was that a widow would marry a brother of the dead man to conceive a child on his behalf to carry his name and receive his inheritance. Tamar’s life only had value if she produced a son.

But the next son, Onan, was also evil and he didn’t want to split his own inheritance with his brother’s heir. So he used Tamar for his own pleasure but ‘spilled his seed on the ground’ to prevent her from conceiving. God struck him down also. At this point, Judah (her father in law) is afraid for the life of his third and last son. So although, by rights, Tamar is supposed to be married to the third brother to try again to produce a son (the only way her own life will have value) he sends her back to her parents house to live as a widow on the premise that his other son is not yet old enough to father a household.

The third son grows up and Tamar realizes that Judah has no intention of marrying the two of them. Worried about how she will live as a widow once her own after dies, she devises a scheme to get what is owed to her by Judah. By law, if the sons can’t provide her with a child, Judah is supposed to do it himself, but he has basically forgotten about her and abandoned her.

She dresses up as a prostitute and hides her face behind a veil and waits for him on the side of the road. He shows up and buys her services, but he doesn’t have the payment on him, so she asks for his personal seal and cord, and the staff that he carries to hold onto until he can get her the goat he owes her. When he returns for his belongings, she has vanished.

A few months later when her father discovers that she is pregnant, in an outrage over her whoring herself, he sends word to Judah asking what should be done with her. Judah sends word back to have her burned alive along with the child inside. Just in time to spare her own life she sends a message to her father-in-law, along with his belongings. ‘The owner of these items is the father of my child. Can you identify them?’

When he saw that they were his, he was finally humbles enough to do what was right by Tamar. He brought her into his household, into a good life and never slept with her again. She had twin boys to add to his household to replace the ones that died.

What a hard life. But in the end, God ensures that Tamar is taken care of, and even better, he honors her by putting her story in his Bible and grafting her into the family line of Jesus through her son with Judah, Perez.

Even more amazing is the change that occurs in Judah made, apparently after witnessing Tamar’s example of steadfast adherence to doing what is right, no matter the cost. You see, the Judah before this story is the Judah who sold his brother Joseph into slavery, marry a woman from another culture who worships idols, and raise sons that were cruel and evil people. This was also the Judah who would do anything to wash his hands of the responsibility he had to Tamar no matter how much her life would suffer for it. Tamar hardheadedly does whatever she needs to to go after what is right – including trickery and dishonoring herself. But she does it all privately in a manner to bring honor to the name of her first husband and his family, and she seeks to know the God of Judah, who is complete mystery to her. After the story of Tamar, Judah transforms into the man who is restored to his own father and brothers and who is even willing to sell himself into slavery to save the life of his other brother Benjamin.

This is the first of five stories that Rivers has written, retelling the Biblical accounts of five women in the Bible who led fascinating lives and who became great great grandmothers (and mother) of Jesus. The others are Rahab, Ruth, Bathsheba, and Mary. I’m looking forward to reading the rest.

Books and Music

Whenever I have spending money, most of it goes to books and music. And coffee. And lip gloss. I like simple pleasures.

Anyways, I just finished reading this: A collection of short stories. They ranged from amusing to hilarious. Matthew bought it for me for Christmas, and I just found out that there are a whole bunch of other Vinyl Cafe story collections. I think I’ll have to pick some of those up.

And Matthew and I found a great cd:

Actually, I found it. It was one of the cds I had in my armload of stuff at the bookstore in Abbotsford. We He finally got our his hands on it and now he loves it as much as I do. (That is a rare find, my friends.) And we are planning a road trip (YEAH ROAD TRIP) to Seattle in April or May (I’ll have to look that up again) for their concert. I here dub 2010 the year of the concert.

Happy Love Day!

Word Pictures by Brian Godawa

I just finished reading this on the weekend. Remember how I was in that giant bookstore with Kim and I had an armload of books and cds I wanted to buy and I had to choose just one? Well, it was this one. And I chose perfect. What a great book.

Here is the description: “Christianity is logical and reasonable, but its not merely logical and reasonable. Award winning screen writer and popular Christian apologist Brian Godawa in, Word Pictures: Knowing God through Story and Imagination, looks beyond the roughly 30%of the Bible that is made up of Laws and propositional truth, to the rich imagery and startling storytelling that make up the majority of the Bible. It is in this mix of symbol, narrative, law and logic that God compels, encourages and instructs us, and we come to know and love God with our whole selves.”

As a student who is equally enamored with literature and philosophy, this book sort of married two trains of thought that sometimes compete for my focus. I’ll be trying hard to explain my way through a difficult concept in a paper and the whole time I’ll be thinking to myself, there’s a reason why Jesus taught us the truths of God using parables (stories) rather than logical propositions. But there’s an important place in the human mind also for logic and laws (the almighty science that my husband so adores). It was both encouraging and exciting to read. I’d dig out an excerpt for ya but I already lent the book out to someone. Very thought provoking. Very well written.

Blue Like Jazz

2nd book of 2010. If you haven’t guessed already, I thought I might keep track of the books I read on the blog.

I already gave you an excerpt, so all I will say is that I liked it. I liked it a lot. I would reccomend it to anyone. It’s a must read. Highly enjoyable. Yes indeed.

Okay. So it looks like this.

Practicing the Presence of People

My first (completed) read of 2010. Actually, it’s a re-read. The first time I read Practicing the Presence of People by Mike Mason Adora was a toddler. You know the two big rules of life. Love God and Love other people. Well, this book is sort of a collection of meditations about loving other people. It has probably influenced the way I think more than any other book, and has helped me a lot in the realm of relationships (I’m not naturally a people person). I know I’ll be reading it again in the future.

The book was inspired by one of the author’s favorite devotionals The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence. It’s all about learning to love. I learn something new every time I open its pages.

Actually, way back when, I borrowed the book from a friend. I had forgotten I still had it on my shelf and I feel really bad. I’m usually a stickler for returning borrowed books (as I really miss the books I have lent that were never returned), but I can’t seem to let this one go. I might have to buy my own copy or buy them a new one.

I’ve read one of Mike Mason’s other books too; The Mystery of Marriage. Also a great book. Mr. Mason lives in Langly BC (not far from here) and reading his books is kind of like receiving long letters of life wisdom from an old uncle you never see.

Anyways, I thought I would include a passage from the book. This is a small passage from Chapter 55: Receivership.

Humility is knowing how to receive from others. Not surprising, one synonym for bankruptcy is receivership. All of us, in ourselves, are spiritually bankrupt. Like the dishonest steward (referring to a parable previously discussed in the chapter) we must face our bankruptcy and go into receivership. This is the poverty of spirit of the Beatitudes. To live this way is to be blessed. As spiritual bankrupts, we know that true riches are gained not through acquiring but through receiving. We know too that it is just as important to receive from people as to receive from God.
Only when we have learned how to receive do we become capable of giving. The receiving must come first. It must come first because we are so proud. Everyone want to give, but who except a bloodsucker wants to receive? Receiving in our society is regarded as low and selfish, the lot of beggars and weaklings. But just as “he who has been forgiven little loves little” (Luke 7:47), so the one who receives little will have little to give.
Many call themselves believers who are not receivers. They like good things, but they also like to be in control of how these good things come to them. This is not receiving but getting. Such people will take, but they will not accept. They will take anything except the risk of vulnerability, and so the mystery of friendship eludes them.

I share this passage with you because it spoke to me. I was sitting in my bed the night I read it. I put the book down and looked around the room and saw some beautiful furniture that we had been given, that we inherited, that I had been slow to receive. I was glad to have it, in more ways than one, but didn’t know what to do with the ‘style’ because I had not personally chosen it and didn’t know how to fit it into my house. How silly.

Which got me thinking about the house itself. I have had my bitterness regarding this house I live in, which I haven’t really written about on this site, but regardless, I have been bitter. I have been reluctant to receive. Silliness.

And then my husband walked into the room. He looked handsome. I said “Why are you so handsome?” Really, I said that because I’ve been jealous. My body, skin and hair have changed so much in the last five years that I barely recognize myself in the mirror. He still looks as good as when we were young. Better even. So when I asked, “Why are you so handsome?” I meant, ‘why do you still look great and I don’t. It’s not fair.”

But he didn’t know that’s what I was thinking, but he threw me a wink over his shoulder and said “And it’s all yours, Baby.” And it hit me like a ton of bricks that I am such a lucky woman to have such a handsome man to call my own! Just for me! So he crawled in the covers and I received him too. :-)

Great Book

Four minutes ago, I finished reading this book:

And it is one of the best books I have ever read.

Awesome. Thanks to my sister Paige, for lending it to me.